Getting a position out @ FT. Hauchuca would be good, even if the pay isn't as much as the Denver job, but better then what you got now.... It'd keep you closer to your daughter and allow you to work on that relationship more.. She may not think of you as a favorite, but as you said a lot of that is due to you not being able to be around due to being overseas.. Keep pressing on and working on it, although you may not become the favorite, at least you will still hopefully form a good strong bond with her.. I spent a few years of my young life out @ Ft. Hauchuca when my dad was stationed there, and did Volksmarches and wheeling out there.. So we expect to see some wheeling pics!! LOL