Dude I'm not an expert but I gave up 10 years in law enforcement with a Sgt. Rank in criminal investigations division. So I could be more of a dad to my 3 kids. Do all you can for your daughter and if it doesn't work out between you 2. At least you will have peace of mind knowing you tried. I'm now working 2 jobs, but I still have more time at home and a satisfied mind. Just my worth.